Dear Wisdom Boy,

Seriously,……wait for it……..on my mind a lot today…Dignity…Pride… Discernment…Heart…Soul and Defense Mechanisms.

Revisit.

If a person can’t cut off all contact with  another person, who she knows is wholly unsuitable., for no tangible or specific reason…wisely unwisely either or neither. Should that person….

A. Be concerned and guard their Pride and Dignity?

B. Question their Discernment…?

C. Protect their Heart and Soul ? (not bragging but it’s a fine set of assets)

D. Be glad that many lifelong defence mechanisms have seemed less in evidence.

E. Stick with friendships as is known to excel at that.

Or just develop an interest in all things domestic and keep myself otherwise occupied?

Wisdom Boy, I think even you are not wise enough to make sense of that lot.

~ Mrs Truly Scrumptious if a little Rumbunctious. I refuse to say (it’s complicated) as crass! prefer ( it’s delicate) ;-(

ps I won’t hold you to a full answer…tall order!

Dear Mrs. Scrump/bunc,

No order is too tall for Wisdom Boy.

You should do A, B, C, D, and E, as well as keeping occupied, which is always a good idea unless one needs to relax and unwind. If the unsuitable person must be contacted, guard your dignity and pride, protect your heart, rejoice that your defense mechanisms are not kicking in too heavily, stick with your friends, and stay occupied with things you enjoy and are productive.

Also, as mortals, our discernment is generally in question, so you might want to keep an eye out as for whether this unspecified reason for the non-suitablity of contact is really a good reason.

Good luck!

Wisdom Boy